Who I believe I am
Identities and values through which we interpret ourselves. These beliefs may matter without reliably predicting every action.
We can understand ourselves, make sincere promises, and still struggle to act. What happens in that space?
The Behaviour Observatory explores the Identity–Action Gap (IAG): Sahil Tayal's proposed framework for examining how identity, intention, friction, context and feedback relate to observable action.
A working conceptual proposal, not an established scientific theory.Imagine someone who values health, intends to walk every day, and repeatedly doesn't. It might be tempting to call this a motivation problem. But perhaps their workday is unpredictable, pain makes movement difficult, or the streets are unsafe.
Missing action is an observation, not a verdict about character. Existing research already examines intentions, habits, self-regulation and opportunity. IAG is an attempt to organise related questions around the distinction between what we believe about ourselves, what we intend, and what occurs in context.
Six useful distinctions, offered as working concepts rather than validated scales.
Identities and values through which we interpret ourselves. These beliefs may matter without reliably predicting every action.
A specific commitment or intention. “Write a paragraph tonight” is more observable than “be a writer.”
Behaviour recorded within a relevant observation period. A missed action alone is not evidence of laziness.
Practical, emotional, cognitive or logistical obstacles. Friction is a conceptual category, not a universal measurement.
Time, money, accessibility, support, health and opportunity shape feasible action.
Outcomes may alter future intentions, expectations, environments and self-concept.
In ordinary language, an intended action has not occurred within a relevant period. But was the intention specific? Was the action feasible? Was the observation reliable? A person prevented from exercising by an injury is not in the same situation as someone who forgot an accessible appointment.
The IAG proposal treats the gap as a starting point for investigation, not a failure score. Changing an intention can also be a sensible response to new information.
These are proposed predictions, not empirical findings or established laws.
Within a person, greater perceived or documented friction may be associated with lower likelihood of completing an intended action, other things being equal.
Possible test: Compare daily obstacles with later completion, while recording time and opportunity.
The association between intention and action may vary with resources, environmental support and practical opportunity.
Possible test: Compare outcomes for similar intentions across different documented contexts.
Clearly defined intentions may show more consistent follow-through than vague aspirations, partly because they are easier to identify and measure.
Possible test: Distinguish changes in real behaviour from improvements in measurement clarity.
Prior outcomes may predict later expectations, intentions or environmental adjustments, with varying directions across people and situations.
Possible test: Examine time-ordered changes without assuming correlation establishes causation.
A within-person design observes one individual's intentions, circumstances and actions repeatedly. It can help identify patterns obscured by comparisons between people who differ in resources, health and responsibilities.
Consider a voluntary, illustrative fourteen-day diary of one everyday goal. Fourteen days is an example, not a validated protocol.
| Moment | Question | Example |
|---|---|---|
| Before the day | What do I intend? | Walk ten minutes after lunch. |
| Before the opportunity | What constraints exist? | Rain, fatigue, work. |
| After the opportunity | What happened? | Completed, changed or not attempted. |
| End of day | What might explain it? | Meeting ran late; indoor option available. |
| Across days | What patterns emerge? | Actions differed when time was protected. |
Repeated observations may identify associations, but a diary can itself change behaviour. Memory, self-report bias, selection and confounding limit interpretation. Correlation is not causation.
Formal human-participant research needs appropriate review, consent and privacy safeguards. Participation must be voluntary, with the ability to decline or withdraw. Sensitive workplace, relationship and health data should not be gathered casually. Personal diaries are not clinical assessments.
A framework earns value by remaining open to explanations that might weaken or replace its own claims.
Time, money, childcare, transport, safety and access may constrain action even when intention is strong.
Pain, illness, fluctuating energy and inaccessible systems affect what is feasible. Missing action cannot diagnose anyone.
New information and competing values can make a revised plan reasonable rather than unsuccessful.
Vague goals, poor recall and arbitrary observation windows may create apparent gaps.
Intention–behaviour research, implementation intentions, habits and capability–opportunity models already address overlapping mechanisms.
Power, rules, economic pressure and social expectations can make some actions costly or unavailable.
It would need to explain something existing approaches do not adequately capture, or offer a practical integration that can be tested. An attractive diagram is not proof of novelty. Measurement, falsifiable predictions, comparison and replication matter.
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My interest in behaviour comes partly from ordinary work, not only management education or reading. In family retail, simple actions depend on inventory, customer expectations, trust, timing and limited attention.
Experimental perfumery offers another lens: understanding a formula is different from obtaining materials, practising, waiting and adjusting. These experiences generate questions; they do not validate a theory.
No. This is Sahil Tayal's proposed framework. Related questions have long been studied in behavioural science. Independent empirical validation of this formulation is not claimed.
There is significant overlap. IAG explicitly separates self-concept, intention, observed action, friction, context and feedback. Whether that adds explanatory value is an open question.
No such conclusion follows automatically. Opportunity, resources, disability, health, environment and revised priorities can all matter.
No. It is a non-clinical writing exercise, not a diagnostic or psychometric instrument.
No. Some barriers protect people from harmful actions, and some intended actions are no longer appropriate. Context and consequences matter.
Generally not by itself. It can reveal patterns but remains vulnerable to confounding, reporting bias and reactivity.
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I'm Sahil Tayal, an independent writer and interdisciplinary practitioner based in New Delhi. My background includes an MBA from Jamnalal Bajaj Institute of Management Studies (JBIMS), experience with organisational behaviour, family retail and experimental perfumery.
This is an independent project. It does not represent JBIMS or any other institution, nor imply academic employment, endorsement, peer-reviewed validation or clinical expertise.
Visit my main website ↗Observation describes experiences or patterns, which may be incomplete or biased.
Hypothesis means a proposed explanation that could be tested.
Established research refers to identifiable studies and research programmes interpreted with appropriate limitations.
Revision is welcome when stronger evidence or criticism warrants it. The aim is to ask better questions, not defend a permanent worldview.
The intention–action problem is not new. Relevant traditions include the Theory of Planned Behavior, implementation intentions, habits, self-regulation and capability–opportunity approaches.
Sources to verify before a formal literature review: The following are research leads, not a completed bibliography or claims of endorsement. Verify original texts and interpretations before formal citation.
A stronger future version could include a documented review, operational definitions, preregistered methods and results if appropriate research is conducted.
A restrained collection of related independent projects.